Marissabel Lacruz

 What to do when they don't accept us as we are. I recently read a quote that said “when the world doesn’t do what we want,” but we really shouldn’t expect the world or people to do everything we want or accept us and take us into account just as we want. One time I was walking down the street with someone and the streets were really crowded with people, there was a lady talking to someone and the lady was behind us but really the lady was blocking the way, then the person who was walking with me stood behind the woman and said “could you give me permission, there are really unconscious people who only think about themselves.” I felt very embarrassed, I just walked around the woman, walked past her, and continued on my way. But if you think about the situation, she's just going about her business talking to someone, she's not paying attention to those around her, she's just doing what she needs to do, and that's really how things are, we can't expect everyone to...

Como podemos hacer para no frustrarnos cuando las personas no nos aceptan como queremos.   Hace poco leí una frase que decía “cuando el mundo no hace lo que queremos,” pero realmente no debemos esperar que el mundo o las personas hagan todo lo que queremos o nos acepten y nos tomen en cuenta tal como queremos.   Una vez iba caminando por la calle con alguien y de verdad las calles estaban atestadas de personas, había una señora hablando con alguien y la señora estaba a espaldas de nosotros pero realmente la señora estaba obstaculizando el paso, entonces la persona que andaba conmigo se para detrás de la mujer y le dice "sera que puede dar un permiso, de verdad que hay personas inconscientes que solo piensan en ellas,” A mi me dio mucha vergüenza, yo solo rodee a la mujer, pase por un lado, y seguí mi camino. Pero si te pones a pensar en la situación, ella simplemente anda en su mundo hablando con alguien, no esta pendiente de los que están a su alrededor, ella simplemente hace...

Who hasn't experienced feeling bad about something they wanted to do or had the opportunity to do but chose another option and over the years felt frustrated by something they didn't do or what they would have liked to do.   At some point in your life you had to make a decision about one or more alternatives and perhaps over the years you felt bad about the decision you made and perhaps you regretted it, it does not leave your mind that you could have made another alternative, that perhaps you would be Better now if you had done that and not this.   Now you see the past but think that when you had to make that decision you surely thought about it a lot and at that moment, the decision you made seemed the most appropriate or perhaps what you were experiencing at that moment led you to make that decision and perhaps the Things after a while did not turn out as you expected, but what you do not know is that perhaps if you had chosen that option that you let go, things w...

      A quien no le ha pasado que se sintió mal por algo que quizo hacer o que tuvo la oportunidad de hacer pero eligió otra opción, y con los años se sintió frustrado por eso que no hizo o que le hubiese gustado hacer.     En algún momento de tu vida te toco tomar una decision sobre una o mas alternativas y quizás con los años te sentiste mal por la decision que tomaste; tal vez te arrepentiste, no sale de tu mente que pudiste tomar otra alternativa, que tal vez estarías mejor ahora si hubieses hecho aquello y no esto.     Ahora ves el pasado pero piensa que cuando te toco tomar esa decisión seguro lo pensaste mucho y en ese momento, la decisión que tomaste te pareció la mas indicada o quizás lo que estabas viviendo en ese momento te llevo a tomar esa decisión y tal vez las cosas después de un tiempo no te salieron como esperabas; pero lo que no sabes es que tal vez si hubieses elegido aquella opción que dejaste pasar, las cosas tampoco seri...